Frequently Asked Questions
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Will there be alcohol?
Yes, we have two open bars for guests to enjoy! One outside in the Garden Terrace and one in the Grandview Room.
Will there be a smoking area?
What is the dress code?
Black Tie Optional – Dress to impress! Formal wear is welcome, but feel free to dress as you wish!
What shoes should I wear?
Feel free to wear whatever shoes you find most comfortable. Rest assured, the area is paved, so there’s no need to worry about walking on grass.
What if I have dietary restrictions?
We want everyone to enjoy the celebration, so if you have any dietary restrictions or allergies, please let us know when you RSVP, and we’ll do our best to accommodate your needs. Whistle Bear is a peanut-free facility, but please note that we cannot guarantee outside foods or desserts haven’t come into contact with allergens.
If you have any specific concerns, feel free to reach out to us directly.
Can I take photos during the ceremony?
We kindly ask that guests refrain from taking photos during the ceremony, as we will be having an unplugged service. We appreciate your understanding and respect for the liturgy, and invite you to be fully present in the moment. We look forward to sharing professional photos with you afterward!
What time should I arrive to the ceremony?
Our ceremony starts promptly at 12:30 p.m. However, please arrive early to get comfortable and find your seats.
What should I expect at the ceremony?
We will be having a Catholic Wedding Ceremony with Mass. Including scripture readings, exchange of vows and rings, prayers, hymns, and Holy Communion. It will be a beautiful and meaningful part of our day, and we’re so grateful to have you there to share in this moment with us. If you are a practicing Catholic, we invite you to join us in receiving communion
The ceremony is expected to take place from 12:30 pm to 1:30 pm, followed by photos until 2:00 pm.
How far away is Whistle Bear from the Basilica?
Whistle Bear is approximately a 25 to 30 minute drive from Our Lady Immaculate.
What should we do in the gap in between?
Downtown Guelph offers plenty of charming pubs just a short walk from the church if you’d like to grab lunch. If you’re staying overnight, you also have the option to check into your hotel and take some time to unwind before the evening festivities.
We understand that this break may not suit everyone, but we can’t wait to celebrate with all our guests at our reception at Whistle Bear later in the evening!
Are children invited?
While we love children, we’ve decided to invite only immediate family and close friends with young children to join us on our special day. We hope you understand, and we look forward to celebrating with you!
Can I bring a guest?
We’ve extended plus-ones to specific guests, but unfortunately, we’re unable to accommodate additional guests at this time. We appreciate your understanding and can’t wait to celebrate with you!
Is there a wedding gift registry?
We don’t have a traditional gift registry, but if you would like to contribute to our honeymoon fund, we would be incredibly grateful. Your presence at our wedding is the best gift we could ask for!
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Can I bring my pet alpaca as my plus one?
While we admire your dedication to exotic companions, we’re trying to keep the dance floor drool-free. Two-legged guests only, please!
What if I show up in pajamas?
As long as your PJs match the wedding colour scheme and you don’t sleep through the vows, we might let it slide. But don’t be surprised if we tuck you into a photo booth and never let you out.
Will there be an open bar?
Yes, but you must promise to practice responsible sipping. No recreating the Dirty Dancing lift after your third round of margaritas.
Can I bring my own DJ equipment and start a surprise techno party?
Only if your techno party involves interpretive dancing grandmas, glow-in-the-dark confetti, and a contract stating you’ll help clean up the aftermath.
What if I catch the bouquet and it doesn't match my outfit?
We recommend immediate bouquet re-gifting to a stylish friend, or simply wear it as a hat and start a new fashion trend.
Do I have to smile in all the wedding photos?
We’ll accept smiles, smirks, grins, and the occasional “confused model” face. Just try not to look like you’re plotting to steal the wedding cake.
Will there be karaoke?
Only if you promise not to turn the bride’s favourite love ballad into an off-key heavy metal scream-fest. This is a wedding, not a battle of the bands.
Can I just Venmo the couple my congratulations instead of attending?
You can, but trust us—you’ll miss out on questionable dance moves, tearful toasts, and free cake. Priorities, people!
Can I bring sparklers to the ceremony?
As long as you don’t set the groom’s beard aflame or start a mini fireworks show during the vows, sparkle away. Safety first…ish!
Are dad jokes allowed in the toast speeches?
Not only allowed, they’re encouraged! Just remember: the more groans you get, the more legend you become.
come celebrate with us
July 19, 2025
As you can see, with that line of questioning, Peter is practicing his Dad jokes! Please join us at our wedding day reception to experience these “hilarious” jokes in person.
We promise there will be alcohol, and we’ll feed you.
